Leaving Gurgaon

Blogging means a way of writing and expressing your feelings to others in the easiest manner....

I started blogging when I shifted to Gurgaon..posted some articles..and then again vanished...For working ladies who believe and try to balance the working and personal life, rest of the things in world go for a toss.. Now as I am again out of this marathon of "Working Ladies", I am free to do some of the things from a pending to do list of my wishes...

Writing has been always a passion for me...given a chance I would definitely take it seriously..perhaps there are very few people in this world for whom the passion has become the profession, and then it opens up avenues for Bread and Butter also..

Due to some reasons we are leaving Gurgaon and again going back to Chennai in a short while...seems the world of writing is inviting me....and I am also waiting to be an Aspiring Writer....

Blogs...

Blogs...Blogs...Blogs...and again blogs...today full day I was surfing so many number of blogs..about what??? FOOD..

My God..so many blogs are available for food, lifestyle, art..etc(exhaustive list)..but I searched my one and only passion..FOOD...previously I had an idea that only very limited South Indian blogs are there..but the gamut of blogs is so big!!!! Everybody is writing a different item..nothing repeats itself anywhere..You won't believe even Oriya blogs are also there where people tell stories about CTC and BBSR and teach you to prepare the Guguni and Aloo dum...

Of course most of the bloggers are home makers..with so beautiful picturisation and explanation about the method of preparation, it's like you can smell and taste the food on your screen..Even I found that very young age girls are also managing blog and they write about so very fantastic and wonderful baked foods...

It was a nice journey through all the blogs for last couple of hours..what I learned from these people that they don't want to simply waste their life in watching TV, chatting with neighbours and going to parties or some useless window shopping..rather they have an aim to make a good food, tell it to every body with the correct ingredients and methods and photos some times..it really makes all the readers also to feel good..I really appreciate their hard work in posting a new topic..

I think we all of us can remember about our childhood days which were so boring on holidays, vacations...we didn't have anything to do, to enjoy..the neighbour Aunties would be sitting at a joint and thinking to break others happy families...perhaps the same will be the situation even now in small towns..I wish we can help them to identify this beautiful way of expressing yourself or your passion to the world and feel light and happy in a better manner...

Mera gham Kitna kam hai..

Each day ,as it passes by in our life , brings more burden of worries, tension, anxieties,pressure, expect ions and ultimately failure here and there, in small matters or as major failures. And there comes all kind of frustrations and disappointment in our hearts, our minds. We change because of these setbacks. A series of why-why questions revolve in our brain.

"Why this happened to me? " "Why I am suffering like this?" "Why my life has become Hell?"

Dear friends, I do feel the same way so many times..but in these days I came across various situations or you can say came to know about others lives where I found that each and every individual under the sun is undergoing through some bloody problems. Different kind of problems, having different impact on life.Some face them bravely, some solve them as they come and some compromise and feel lowly in life. Perhaps I have become the prey of the third category. I had stopped thinking that others are also suffering. They are also bleeding.

Recently I have got a maid servant who is basically from Nepal, very young and widow. She had married to a middle aged person who died recently. He has left behind a boy of 17 years old whom she considers as her own son.She even doesn't have parents. Oh God!!! If I think about her closing my eyes, I feel nervous, I feel blank.. I am surprised to see her confidence level to come up in life..to fulfill her target despite of various personal issues...  Seriously we close our eyes and decide that world has immersed into darkness..

We would have heard the song.."Duniya main kitna gham hain..mera gham kitna kum hain..". Perhaps each time we feel low or exhausted in life , we can think about somebody who is also suffering, may be the parameters would be different..and thank God that we have got challenges upto the level we can beat up..

The Present

Writing had always been a passion for me in past years..which is getting a concrete shape in these present days.Thanks to the blogging mania..any immature writer can post something..then why not me???? 

Except for blogging in my honeymoon period( the present days), also decided to discover some ideas to write a book...now a days the publishing market is flooded with more number of publishers than the authors. This has always made me to feel that somebody somewhere is waiting for me..

Just going through a book named "The Present"..by Mr. Spencer Johnson, M.D. , a good book.Everybody out in the world here stays in the present but lives in past worries or future dreams..We don't bother to realize that past is the outcome of failed plan of that "Present"..and  Tomorrow..by God never comes..

All of us are presented with a present by Life here or there...Out here in Gurgaon, my present is the present time where I can transform my knowledge level to somewhat higher level..So the quest begins for me!!!

First Article....

It has been around 7 months I am in this blog...but I have never blogged...I don't know whether it was lack of time or lack of interest... Sincerely these two things are the most important things in life..Time and Interest..

So many beautiful ideas in our minds are not given a shape due to lack of time and interest..sometimes we may be having time but not interest..and off late when we discover that we are generating interest in a particular aspect we lack time...

In these past 5-6 years I am expanding in all the dimensions without control..though I have the Tread Mill in the house itself but due to lack of time I have not used it...now after shifting to Gurgaon I have ample of time in my pocket...but still not initiated the machine also..this time the reason being Interest...

Anyway I am so very determined to use the machine effectively henceforth..

Wish me luck..see you in next blog with a new topic...